My Reviews

I had followed Mistress on Twitter for a few years, and after chatting for a while, I finally arranged a visit. Mistress put me at ease straight away on the phone; her voice is incredibly sexy, and I felt unusually calm on the day of our meeting. She is stunning, sensual, tactile, and erotic, and she took control in a way that made me very happy, as I am still unsure of what truly makes me tick.

Mistress picked out my outfit after going through numerous options from her amazing selection, and she patiently did my makeup, which, by the way, was far better than anything I've had done in the past. We chatted throughout the process, getting to know my desires and kinks. Thoroughly professional, friendly, and sexy, Mistress made the entire experience enjoyable.

After some photos and videos, we went to a room filled with an incredible array of toys and apparatus. I didn't know where to look—there was so much to enjoy! This day far exceeded my expectations, and I can't wait to explore more in the near future: to try new looks, new toys, and new experiences, and to discover what truly makes me tick. I'm confident Mistress will help me find it.

Thank you for an amazing day... you're amazing. xxx 

Mistress Poshtotti says......

What a fun and very naughty girl you are, it was my pleasure to take you in hand and see you truly blossom, I can't wait for your next adventure with me.

After being on the to-do-list for at least a year, with other commitments and a pandemic getting in the way, I finally got around to visiting the Mistress earlier this year. 

The appointment was carefully planned and organised and the Mistress directed me to here chambers as discretely as possible. 

Once I finally met Mistress Poshtotti in person for the first time I was thrown for a loop, she was not the typical mistress that I'd expected, she was polite, well-spoken and comforting. I was a bag of nerves to begin with, as it was my first time visiting a mistress, but it didn't take long for her to calm me down with a cuddle. 

Once she lead me upstairs to her playroom and ordered me to strip naked the fun began. What followed was an hour of teasing, spanking, body worship and gadget play. 

I've visited the Mistress a further five times since then and my eyes have been opened to experiences that I never thought I'd be involved in, but thank god I did. I even had the pleasure of experiencing the double domme session with the lovely Sarah Foxx. 

Kind hearted, beautiful and a lot of fun, I couldn't have asked for a better woman to take my Mistress cherry. 

Mistress Poshtotti can do no wrong.

Mistress poshtotti says.

Samuel is a fabulous person to have in my chambers, great fun and with an open mind, he grows and learns with every visit, an absolute pleasure.

It felt like it may never happen. The deposit was paid, I was still building the nerve to go but covid, lock downs, christmas and more get getting in the way.

Then the planets aligned and it happened. Walking up the steps to knock on the door I was in flux. I knocked the door opened and I was beckoned in......

Mistress is breath taking. Her presence is immense and with her boots she's a normal height. 

She is beautiful and with a friendly welcome you are led up the stairs. I tried not to look at her bum but it's a peach.

Once upstairs the dungeon is so well equipped, which she'll show you and then I was commanded to strip naked. I left my pants on at first but was quickly admonished after which I was led over to her sofa where she sat down and put me over her knee.

Whilst I was thinking what lovely skin she had, my spanking started. Many many implements were used and Miss is good very good. She also doesn't really stop talking and at times I giggled even though my bum was burning.

Now I'm not going to tell you what else happened. Although Miss does seem to like me to christen her canes et al, because you need to find out for yourself. 

I've been back a further 3 times. Mistress has properly punished me for being late and also told me off for working too hard, cuddled me after amazing sessions and more. 

Mistress is truly amazing and a beautiful person inside and out. Except when using metal loopy bastard.   

Mistress Poshtotti says

I very much look forward to Stuart's visits, he has a good pain threshold that brings out my little sadistic side. I continue to persuade  him to try something a little more adventurous, I always get my way Stuart!

It is true to say my submission to You Mistress requires an extraordinary amount of trust, not to mention a little  bravery sometimes and a dash of confidence too.   But I can only do this because I know that my trust will not be abused by You. Indeed it will be cherished and nurtured. 

But like wise I think that in accepting my submission is similarly an exercise in trust. You acknowledge that I have put a lot of faith in You and that You will respect what I have given to You completely. Because the moment this trust is damaged for any reason by either of us or withdrawn, it might be impossible to earn it back.

That is the truth of dominance I think, it’s not about demanding submission, but earning it. Being a trustworthy person is absolutely fundamental to that.

So what does that trust look and feel like in our world.  I suspect that for somebody who is on the outside looking in on us it would be easy to think the relationship is unequal, particularly in our relationship for example. But the truth is quite the opposite. You and I are two sides of the same coin, both equally dependent on each other when we are playing together.   It is the trust between us is on which everything hinges. 

Trust is the pivot that keeps us equally aligned and perfectly weighted. Whenever there isn’t trust between Mistress and I Your sub BDSM I suppose becomes abuse. Without trust there will be an absence of respect.  Without it, the power exchange and the things that we do would become tentative and fearful.

The most obvious way that trust manifests with us is the trust that I put in You my Mistress.  In order to submit to You I am 100% confident that You will look after me. I know You will take all necessary precautions to ensure my safety.  I know that You know and fully understand what it is You are doing and through out our journey You have always been honest about Your skill level.  Which I have to say increases meet on meet. 

Most importantly, i know, beyond a shadow of a doubt, You will stop what we are doing if I ask You to .  Trusting that my word will be honoured allows me to let go completely. 

But I feel that it is really easy to forget and not discuss the trust required by You my Mistress and Dominant, but it is no less important.  As my Mistress You must be able to trust me Your submissive implicitly.  You need to feel assured that i am being honest with my desires and limits, and that I have given You all the information required to allow us to safely meet together and play in the way we do. 

I think that You must have to be able to trust in Your own skills and equipment, to know that everything is going to perform as required so that any meet runs smoothly. 

You must have conviction that i will follow Your commands.  And on the other side of the coin You need to feel certain that i will tell You if my limits have been reached.   

Trust underpins the most vital component of all, consent.  Each of needs to be sure that the other is going to speak up if something doesn’t feel right, if play reaches a point beyond their limits. We also need to feel secure in the fact that each of us will stop if the other asks them to.  

I know that between us a deep trust has been established. With out that deep seated trust we would be on an unsteady footing, both of us with one eye open to the possibility either of us could be harmed or taken advantage of.  But because our trust is full and complete, we can both play with everything we have, we can immerse ourselves in the rhythm of the meet without fear.   

There is no doubt that our meets are a highly vulnerable activity.  Not only am i putting my body on the line, but i open up parts of myself that nobody but You have seen. It took some large amount of courage initially to open up to reveal my self and ultimately fantasies and desires to You, because in the early days I didn’t know You like I do now and there was a fear that You could have been judgemental and ridiculed me. 

Stigma and fear had ruled me until I met You. I never ever gave a voice to my desires and kept my fantasies locked in the dark.  However having opened up to You my trust has deepened and Your beautiful cathartic light has shone into the darkness, giving me the power to believe that my proclamations, and there are many, will be met with acceptance and understanding by You.  It is true to say that I have never ever trusted any body as I do You. 

With this deep unshakable trust that I have in You means that I have been able to share my greatest fantasies with You, those fantasies have been realised. And at its very core, I think kink and bdsm is all about breathing life into desires.  

Without trust, our play would always be tentative and cautious.  Our meets would always take place with one foot firmly on the ground.   My confidence in You, the trust that I am are cared for and accepted allows me to lift both feet, to give flight to my fantasies and to truly be in the here and now without fetters or fear.   What we have instead are meets that are full of unbound joy and laughter. 

Our journey has at the heart of it had a continuous dialogue between us both, this has been both verbal and on my behalf non-verbal. This dialogue is incredibly important because, at the risk of over generalising here, the emotions wrapped up in a BDSM world are more intense and than those in the vanilla world. 

The emotions of the participants in our way of play are intense and I suspect that we need more support, more analysis and more understanding of what it is we do together how it affects us as individuals both as Mistress and slave and as such there needs to be constant communication. 

The trust required to bare my most honest feelings is profound and unquestionable

This leads on to why I have been writing about trust. Consensual non consent or CNC.  

Now if you read about CNC on the internet it talks about rape play a lot and it seems that this is the main area that people get hung up about CNC.  But for me it goes much deeper than that. 

CNC because of its connection with rape play isn’t talked about much. It appears to be vilified and shunned. 

But I feel it is misunderstood. For me it is about the deep rooted trust that we have. 

Do we practice CNC. Yes I believe we do every time we meet in our own unique way. 

The CNC we practice is a deep seated mutual agreement between us where You are able to do as You please because I have waived all consent. 

I have given You my complete consent and I see that this consent as being a permanent arrangement. 

The bottom line is that this consent to so as You please is something that I have willingly given to You.  But it goes further than that. The “non-consensual” part also means that sometimes You may have to make me obey even when I refuse (which isn’t often at all). 

Why would I as Your slave, say “no” even when I have  already given my total submission? 

Simply put, because even as Your slave I am not a robot.  I have feelings, needs, wants, and imperfections too.  I may disagree with You, and I may voice that, but i still ultimately want to serve You and be used and abused. 

If you’re still confused as to what I am trying to say then here is what it means to me

“I like it even when I don’t like it.  I want it even when I don’t want it.”

I think that makes sense. 

Well I hope it makes sense. 

There are clearly different aspects to our consensual non-consent style of play. For me it’s not just about physical violence – though that does play a big part in the pleasure of it. It’s about surrendering control to You completely and utterly.  It allows me to let go completely whilst feeling safe and secure such is the complete and utter power You have over me. 

May I say today Mistress was an absolute joy to be with you.  You were incredible. You were soo / are so beautiful it brings me to tears just to think upon how beautiful you are. I loved your outfit today it was gorgeous. 

So what is the bodies response  to poppers.  Well it is vasal dilation, basically poppers expand the size of blood vessels throughout the body and increases the takers heart rate so that their blood  b "rushes" through their system. 

As my blood rushed through my brain i felt an intense feeling of being "high" and this dilation also causes the muscles of my body body to expand and relax, which gave a sense of relaxation. 

I believe tha blood rushing around would explain why there was an increase in temperature when inhaling poppers. 

These effects however are only very temporary lasting from a few seconds to a few minutes, depending on the amount of popper in the mask. 

Essentially I was going from being "high" to stone cold sober in the space of a few minutes. 

It is an incredible feeling and I enjoyed the sensation. Would I want to do it all of the time. No I don’t think I would. The reason for this is that the pain sensations were reduced. This I suspect I did to the increase of blood in

The gas mask is incredible. I loved using it in our play. Whether it be with poppers or not. 

 I know how claustrophobic they can be.   I never considered how they would cross over to bdsm. 

I have to say they are incredible. Once they go on my whole world closes down to what is in front of me. Vision is restricted and it is a dark space to be in. Breathing is restricted because I’m having to drag air in through a small space. I am immediately put into a sub head space.   It is hot and sweaty inside a mask and it is just an I credible space to be as a sub. 

My sub space was deep with the mask on. Im not sure if the poppers contributed to that or not. But I don’t think they did because they give a sensation of being high. Where as  my sub space is very much a dropping away from reality. But the mask makes that sooo easy to do. I had absolutely no idea what was going on or where I was. But the space was very definitely a red space. It was hard loud and very red. Incredible. I had no idea you were touching me or talking to me. Normally I see you reaching in. But not today. 

 I soooo loved having your foot pushed into my mouth. Being made to lick and suck your toes. Lying under your feet was an incredible feeling of being submissive and under your control. I’m sorry I’m not very good at physical worship. But I do love it so. 

Through out the meet was all the favourites the canes whips and paddles it was a truly incredible meet. 

Yet again you blew me away. Every time the is something new something that you want to try and improve upon. You are truly and innovator. Your skill set grows and expands every time. But what you do know the regulars if you like so for example caning or whipping just get better and better. 

You truly are a supremely skilled Mistress. You leave me in complete awe every time we meet. 

6a is truly looking amazing now. The black room, and I think you would agree with me has always been a bit of a non entity as a space. But now it has purpose and looks amazing with all your clothes located there. It feels really special and intimate. 

The old dressing room is perfect as a photography studio. 

I love  the chambers as you know. It truly is my happy place but you have finally found the perfect layout for her. It’s incredible. 

I love that we laugh and chat through out our meets. One moment there is violence and then we are chatting about the mundane  things,then switching to violence and pain again. Through it all there is laughter weaving through it all. 

Truly special magical times with my best friend. 

Thank you Mistress you truly are the most incredible beautiful human

Mistress Poshtotti says

You sum up in beautiful words our relationship, our trust, our bond and our friendship, but more than that, you describe exactly what  BDSM should be about.

Thank you Henry

I have visited Mistress Poshtotti many times now and under her tutelage I have become a more feminine and convincing girl. From my first phone call with her she made me feel comfortable and happy with my feminine alter ego. My initial nerves on my first visit to her when she kindly did her first sessions in London on my request were soothed within seconds as she made me feel at home. I removed my male clothes and stood naked in front of her without any shame and then dressed for her. I knew then that I was her girl forever. We had plenty of giggles as she applied my make up and made look so pretty for her. Playtime was amazing and I did everything she wanted of me and submitted to her skilful hands as she pushed my boundaries and gently encouraged me to submit and an orgasm that I had never ever experienced before. Each visit I become more of the girl of my dreams and Mistress took me to new heightened levels of pleasure and orgasms. My last visit I actually gasped when I saw my image in mirror as I was a girl x

Mistress Poshtotti says

Martine has becoma a beautiful confident and sassy girl, she continues to blossom, her potential is limitless, very much looking forward to continuing her journey together❤ 

Mistress Poshtotti was very welcoming even before entering her chambers, she listened to what I was interested in and worked at how she could make it happen in a real time session. As soon as I attended Mistress’s chambers I was made so at ease and comfortable, and went on to experience all my favourite kinks.

Mistress knew I was a sissy and invited me to experience a Sissy Wedding where I pledged my devotion to Mistress… It turned out to be one of the most special days I have experienced, and was made to feel like a proper bride… I still look at my ring which is engraved with property of MPT on a daily basis, and remember a perfect day with Mistress.

Mistress poshtotti says:

Laura is one of my special ladies,  her "wedding" day was indeed very special, I often look back on the video we created together; when she pledged her devotion to me 

Watch the beautiful video here

💘  https://mistressposhtotti.com/a-sparkly-sissy-wedding

I have always had a desire to submit to a dominatrix. I have searched for years and I have never felt comfortable to book a session. But a couple of weeks ago I stumbled upon Mistress Poshtotti’s profile. 

After reading her website I went on to read her twitter pages. I could see that she has a devoted following and her photographs are absolutely amazing.  

So after a few years of wanting to get to a session with a mistress I finally decided to go for it and  made contact with mistress Poshtotti

After plucking up the courage to get in touch with mistress Poshtotti I found the communication was perfect. I was asked about my interests and told exactly what services Mistress Poshtotti could provide. 

Having made contact mistress asked for a deposit which I initially wasn't happy with, but once I had spoken with her about why she took a deposit I was more relaxed and having visited I now understand why.  I can assure anyone reading this that providing a deposit isn’t a problem. 

£200 is enormously expensive for an hour, and mistress Poshtotti is very aware of this, but again seeing the amount of investment she has obviously made, I now understand why, this is NOT a back room in someone's house, its a 3 storey building dedicated to her work and amazingly well equipped with things I haven’t seen or heard of before.

I am very glad I plucked up the courage to visit as the session lived up to every expectation.  No I’m wrong our meeting absolutely blew my mind. It was amazing. 

Mistress Poshtotti’s chambers are easy to find and the parking is plentiful.   I felt safe and secure arriving. Upon my arrival mistress showed me in and after a brief chat ordered be onto my hands and knees, mistress then tested me.  

Let me just say my boundaries were definitely pushed as I struggled to keep up with her.  My two hours with her flew by in a heart beat as I was pushed to my limits. 

Mistress Poshtotti’s chambers are absolutely amazing.  She has everything you can imagine. I don’t think you could find a better equipped chambers.   I was dressed as a sissy whipped electrocuted and fucked with a strap on.   Just a small one thankfully. She has some huge cocks.  

Words don't really do her enough justice but you will be blown away with Mistress Poshtotti’s skill. 

Don’t be deceived. Just because she is in rural Wales dosent mean she isn’t the best of them all. This lady is amazing. 

I look forward to one day experiencing it all again

Mistress Poshtotti says

Tony, it was an absolute pleasure, you are more than welcome anytime.

You are rather an adventurous chap